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This blog was created to share my experiences as I journeyed toward my then Master of Arts degree to my now doctoral degree in Early Childhood. Feel free to share your great experiences in this great field.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Reflective Relationships


Me, my step brother, sisters, step mother, daddy and my boys

Me and the love of my life Tony

Relationships are important to me because they provide love, support, and encouragement.  One of my most important relationships was with my mother; she passed away in March of 97.  It was her loving, honest and supportive personality that truly made me the person I am today.  My relationship with my father was also one of support and encourage. They are picture in my childhood web.  My have wonderful relationships with my good friends, my sisters and brothers, and extended family.  My most important relationship currently is with my husband Tony and our son’s Thomas and Timothy.  I cherish these relationships because my husband is my best friend, confidant, and love.  I cherish the opportunity to mother our sons and build a wonderful trusting relationship.


Me and two of my coworkers

I have found developing and maintaining relationships truly take work.  Relationships must be cultivated with communication and quality time.  I learned from the passing of my mother and other close family members that relationships are not to be taken for granted.  It is necessary to take the time to make a call or even a visit to say hello or I love you.

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me and my God Children
 
The special characteristic of the relationships I have that make some partnerships is trust.  For example, my husband and I are life partners.  We committed ourselves to each other over fourteen years ago. This commitment included building our lives together including parenting children.


My experiences with relationships/partnerships help me to be more effective as an early childhood professional because they cause me to be more sensitive to others feelings and needs.  It also helps me to be mindful of how I communicate with others as well as respect the thoughts and opinions of others. 









1 comment:

  1. Vanessa,
    I absolutely LOVE your pictures you posted. It seems to bring your stories to life. When you talk about trust with your husband, it's so critical. It's amazing to me what having trust in a relationship can give you such reassurance. I trust my husband and I know that he'll be there for me when i need him. I never have to worry. I have friends that don't have that luxury with their husbands. I feel very blessed. I think that it makes me a better teacher to have that consistency in relationships in my home life. :) Congratulations to you on such a beautiful family! :)

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